Summer is here, wait is has alwalys been around...

The month of May! Birds start singing, flower blooming and everything is lovely. Atleast it seems that way. For malaysia its summer all year long with a little bid of humidity... wait lots of humidity, something like a pressure cooker. But one thing we can all enjoy is the summer blockbuster and one of the reason why im proud to be malaysian public holiday!!! 1st and 2nd which was being replace since 1st is a holiday. Okay back to the reason why i log on to write something that i need answer (reasoning with self :P)

Just a question you guys might want to ask youself. When your talking to someone that matters will every single words they say effects how you feel. Well if its something good coming out from the person mouth cant really complain but what if its something that give a little tab in your heart. Do you reason with yourself maybe the person did not meant it or would you just make the situation worst by going on and on about how inconsiderate the person is.

Right maybe its no big deal if the person is just a fren, well applies only to guy cause most of the time i see gals in cat fight because of this. What if it happen to a couple. Is it better to voice out to your partner "hey look here, when you talk something its better you go thru your brain or it might just hurt me" or do the selfless sacrifice, take it in the stomach and pretand nothing happen. If you do that the only problem is it might happen again.

For a personal note, i like people to do things without me telling them. A very good example is hey look here those words you said hurt alot and i just pretand i didnt hear that just to not make matter worst but can u please do repeat it. Tell me about it, its complicated and it doesnt feel good when it happen. Lets just hope when i find one i dont need to be in this tangle up web.